boys ask questions; Men give answers. boys play house; Men build homes. Boys shack up; Men get married. boys make babies; Men raise children. A boy won’t raise his own children, a Man will raise his and someone else’s. boys invent excuses for failure; Men produce strategies for success. boys look for somebody to take care of them; Men look for someone to take care of. boys seek popularity; Men demand respect and know how to give it.